Many surrogates often ask several questions pertaining to working with International Intended parents. We wanted to dispel some of the thoughts...
Welcome to Selfless Surrogates!
What We Do
Thank you for your interest in surrogacy! The fact that you are considering how to become a Surrogate Mother for someone says a lot about your character. I want to personally welcome you to a journey that will be life-changing no matter what the circumstances that brought you here. I’m grateful for this opportunity to walk you through the process whether it is your first journey or subsequent journeys. I am happy to become your advocate to ensure you gain a positive experience from selflessly blessing others with the gift of parenthood.
For many, this is a daunting and emotional journey that has left them heartbroken. I ask that all my ladies be sensitive to this. We will prepare you for what to expect to the best of our ability ensuring you are truly ready to take this step. All family members must be on board and supportive. We certainly do not want to unnecessarily disrupt the emotions of a hopeful expectant parent. Many have been through so much in most cases having to come to terms with the devastation of infertility. Whatever brought you to this site to find out more about this amazing arrangement, I want to genuinely thank you for the opportunity to explore options with you and share my personal experience with you as well as many others I’ve encountered in my years of working with surrogate moms. It is a blessing that you are willing to be a vessel in a unique journey that will make someone’s dreams of parenthood come true!
My role in this industry is as an independent seeking to match Gestational Carriers (surrogate mothers who carry children that have NO genetic or biological tie to themselves) with clients from all over the world. I work closely with a few select agencies to match carriers with the one that would best suit them based on their eligibility. It is my goal to make this experience a rewarding and fruitful experience for all involved parties. From my personal experience having been a surrogate twice carrying 3 babies; the outcome of your journey is heavily impacted by your motivation, your positive attitude, and your persistence to endure the unexpected circumstances that can happen in a surrogate journey.
The select agencies I work with go above and beyond simply matching candidates. They work with all parties to ensure that proper health, life, and disability policies are in place for the carrier. The contracts drawn up reflect the best interest of all parties as well as appropriate financial and estate planning for the intended parents. These elements enhance and protect the experience and mitigate exposure for our special surrogate moms.
The agencies I work with do not post surrogate profiles, photos, or confidential information online or within any public database. Our matching process is very exclusive and profiles are only shared with a limited number of intended parents with like-minded attitudes and goals before, during, and after the pregnancy.
My goal is to work individually with each carrier on her goals, hopes, and expectations for a journey. Once we build this foundation and determine what is most important to her we then make a recommendation of who to work with and begin the paperwork process. We believe honesty is the best policy. If for any reason we see there will be challenges in attaining or reaching your goals we may suggest you to another agency that will better serve your needs. It is our goal that your experience is a very positive one. We want nothing more than for all parties to be comfortable with a surrogacy arrangement that we establish before embryo transfer. If this sounds like a good fit for what you are hoping to gain from this life-changing journey, please contact me at your convenience.
I look forward to getting to know you and working closely with you in the coming months. Please contact me with any questions or for further information. The process takes time. This is not something for someone in a bad spot who needs to make some quick money. There is a lot required of you and it is important you fully understand that before getting started. If non-biased, straight-forward information is what you are looking for you’ve come to the right place.
Sincerely,
Wendy Shyer
surrogatesaa@gmail.com
Questions? Ask Wendy
surrogatesaa@gmail.com
Our Service
Our approach is unique and every case is treated individually because there is no such thing as “one size fits all” when it comes to surrogacy and our ever-changing laws and insurance. We do not post your profile, name, location or identity on any public database. I pride myself on personally matching our special surrogates with like-minded intended parents from across the world. A unique quality in working with me is that I do not work with or represent Intended Parents. You will receive no conflict of interest in working with me. It is this personalized attention to detail that enables me to create the best matches possible.
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Personal Testimonials
“The best part of being a surrogate, for me, is giving a family the opportunity to experience parenthood.”
Jamie
Surrogate Mother
“For anyone who is considering being a surrogate mother I highly recommend Wendy!”
Stephanie
Surrogate Mother
“I would recommend anyone who is interested in becoming a miracle for another couple to talk to Wendy.”
Tracie
Surrogate Mother
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