How To Become A Surrogate Mother

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Thank you so much for your interest in surrogacy! The fact that you are considering how to become a Surrogate Mother for someone says a lot about your character.  I want to personally welcome you to a journey that will be life-changing no matter what the circumstances that brought you here.  I’m grateful for this opportunity to walk you through the process whether it is your first journey or subsequent journeys.  I am happy to become your advocate to insure you gain a positive experience from selflessly blessing others with the gift of parenthood.

For many, this is a daunting and emotional journey that has left them heart-broken.  I ask that all my gals be sensitive to this and prepare them for what to expect to the best of my ability insuring they are truly ready to take this step.  All family members must be on board and supportive.  We certainly do not want to unnecessarily disrupt emotions of a hopeful expectant parent.  Many have been through so much in most cases having to come to terms with the devastation of infertility.  Whatever brought you to this site to find out more about this amazing arrangement, I want to genuinely thank you for the opportunity to explore options with you and share my personal experience with you as well as many others I’ve encountered in my years of working with surrogate moms.  It is a blessing that you are willing to be a vessel in a unique journey that will make someone’s dreams of parenthood come true!

Surrogacy Advocate Role

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My role in this industry is as an independent seeking to match Gestational Carriers (surrogate mothers who carry children that have NO biological tie to themselves for someone else) with clients from all over the world.  I am not associated with any agencies and therefore I offer an individualized approach.  I work closely with an independent colleague to match carriers with like-minded intended parents.  It is my intention to make this experience a rewarding and fruitful experience for all involved parties.  From my personal experience having been a surrogate; a perfect match is made when the foundation for this life-changing journey is established at the very beginning.

Our surrogacy advocate approach goes above and beyond simply matching candidates.  We work with all parties to ensure that proper health, life, and disability policies are in place for the carrier.  The contracts drawn up reflect the best interest of all parties as well as appropriate financial and estate planning for the intended parents.  These elements enhance and protect the experience and mitigate exposure for our special surrogate moms.  Another unique quality with SAA is we do not work with Intended Parents.  All IPs are referred out as we feel this is a conflict of interest in working with both parties.

Our collaborative approach to committing to only work with our surrogate carriers makes us unique in the industry.  Most importantly surrogate profiles, photos, and confidential information is never posted online or within any public database.  Our matching process is very exclusive and profiles are only shared with a limited number of intended parents with like-minded attitudes and goals before, during and after the pregnancy.

Our Goal

Our goal is to work individually with the carrier on her goals, hopes and expectations for a journey.  Once we build this foundation and determine what is most important to her we then search for the IP to go with that.  We believe honesty is the best policy.  If for any reason we see there will be challenges in attaining or reaching your goals we may suggest you to another agency etc that will better serve your needs.  It is our goal that your experience is a very positive one.  We want nothing more than for all parties to be comfortable with a fair and equitable surrogacy arrangement that we establish prior to embryo transfer.  If this sounds like a good fit for what you are hoping to gain from this life-changing journey, please contact me today.

I look forward to getting to know you and working closely with you in the coming months.  Please contact me with any questions or for further information.  The process takes time.  This is not something for someone in a bad spot who needs to make some quick money.  There is a lot required of you and it is important you fully understand that before getting started.  If non-biased, straight-forward information is what you are looking for you’ve come to the right place.


Wendy Shyer

Become a Surrogate Mother

We invite you to review this website for important information about how to become a surrogate mother, learn about the process and what to expect from many testimonials and articles about surrogacy.  If you have any questions about surrogacy or if you are ready to become a surrogate, please don’t hesitate to contact me.